Finding out someone you love has hurt you, is one of the hardest realizations to come to. Love is blinding, and when you finally see things clearly it can hurt. I know it hurt me when I found out my husband was cheating. I thought my whole world was falling onto my shoulders and that there was nothing I could do to stop it. If you feel this way, hopefully reading this blog will help you realize that this does not have to be the case. This post will give you tips on how relationships are not all the same, help with trust issues and help you see that things will get better! I will also answer the commonly asked question, can you read someones text messages without installing software on their phone? I had this very question when my suspicions about my husband cheating took over my life.
Different Relationship, Different Result
One thing I want my readers to understand is that you CANNOT bring your past relationship into your new one. This is something I struggled with and am still trying to pursue. If you head into a new relationship after a divorce, it is just that, new. A fresh start at being happy, without having your past heartbreak control your life any longer. If you are living in the shadow of your past relationship you will have trouble trusting someone new and therefore not give 100% to that relationship. Trust is the biggest stepping stone to a happy and healthy relationship, without it, the relationship is starting off wrong. My motto is, trust someone until they give you a reason not to. If you are constantly comparing your new relationship to a past relationship, you are being unfair to the person you are with and to yourself. Trust me, I know how hard it is to even think about trusting someone again, but without trust it is hard to start over.
How Can You Read Someones Text Messages Without Installing Software On Their Phone?
How can you read someones text messages without installing software on their phone? This is a big question that I asked when I felt as though I was being betrayed. I wanted to know if my husband was talking to another woman and unfortunately, my suspicions were correct. Never underestimate a woman’s intuition! There are many ways to put your mind at ease, mine was by directly going to the source. I was tired of worrying all the time and tired of the anxious thoughts that were controlling my life. Once I found out for sure that my suspicions were correct, I stopped worrying. Do not let anxiety take over your life, if you want answers get them!
Things Will Get Better
Recently I have been getting back out there and looking for someone who will treat me right. My hope is that every woman who has been hurt, or cheated on does not give up. If you give up, who wins? NOBODY! You have one life, don’t let heartbreak stop you from living it. Keep your head up, and when you are ready, dip your foot back into the pool of men or women that are out there. There are a lot of them!
I hope this post helped woman and men who have been hurt by a significant other. If you want to talk to me more about this topic feel free to contact me!