Internet dating involves a lot of trial and error. Most people really underestimate how important their profile is. I did too, until I realized that I had to make some changes to my dating profiles. My email was getting terrible matches on some dating sites, and none at all on other sites. I couldn’t figure out what the problem was. I had great photos, and I thought that my profile paragraphs were witty and clever. It’s important to know that Internet dating can often be as simple as finding a remote phone spy app on a phone.
Baffled and frustrated I hired a professional dating coach to rework my dating profiles and help me up my game when it comes to online dating. I even managed to find a good iPhone spy app for the future and potential problems. This is what happened.
She Gutted My Photos
I thought I had the perfect mix of photos. Some were photos of me horseback riding and swimming, which showed my body and showed activities that I liked. I had one photo of me having wine with friends to show that I do have friends, and I had a couple of selfies where I thought I looked great. But the first thing that my dating coach did was yank down all the photos. She didn’t even take a look at any remote phone spy apps. She looked through all the photos I had on my computer and on my phone and chose an entirely different set of photos. Most of them were photos that I would never have chosen. She explained that while the action photos were okay the other photos looked fake and didn’t show off my personality. Instead she chose photos that she said represented the authentic me, not the posed and staged me.
She Took Out All My Clever One Liners
I thought that my witty one liners showed my sense of humor and made me seem edgy like so many other witty social media bios. But my dating coach told me that trying to be too edgy just hides who I am. She told me that being honest about what you like and what you’re looking for is the only way to find a real relationship on an Internet dating site. I thought I was being honest. She helped me see that I wasn’t really clear on what I was looking for either. Together we talked through what I was really looking for until I had a better idea of the type of relationship I really want and she changed the profile wording to reflect that.
Here’s What Happened
While I was skeptical that her changes would result in getting more matches or better matches, within hours I was getting matches based on the new profile she created. Even remote phone spy apps couldn’t have been that fast. And the matches really were better quality! There were still some duds in there, but overall the quality of the people that I was matching with was much more in line with what I’m looking for. So if you’re not getting the kind of matches that you want on Internet dating sites, or not getting enough matches, you should consider hiring a professional to give your profile a makeover. It really worked for me. Especially since I’ve been divorced for a while, it was nice to have some new attention.